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    Cant Help Falling In Love....Save A Whore Syndrome

    Anyone else suffer from 'save a whore syndrome?
    I am unfortunately affected by this costly condition and its raising its ugly head again.
    I was married to one of Pattayas finest daughters for 5 years. This cost me hugely both financially but more importantly emotionally. It was the most stressful, traumatic period of my whole life and once divorced i swore to myself i would never go down that road again.
    A couple of months ago while enjoying Sin City as a single man i was struck down again. Yep this one was different. 35 years old, laid back, good looking{obviously} and just seemed a genuinely nice girl. The complete opposite to the last physco i was with. i was paying her 2500 a day which she was not surprisingly delighted with considering she was with me for 3 weeks. We also spent 4 happy days in Samet before i headed back to the UK
    Now we are talking about me meeting the parents etc when im back over in LOS.
    Im 45 but not too bad on the looks front. I wouldn't dream of taking shit of a falang bird but there seems to be an inherent weakness in me when it comes to bar girls. I just cant work it out as im always first to take the piss when i see gullible fools in similar situations........ I need help.

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    If thine eye offends thee....................


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    Quote Originally Posted by Scottish Gary
    I just cant work it out as im always first to take the piss when i see gullible fools in similar situations........ I need help.
    Get a new one next time. Then you lose your deposit every year, but you never have to make long term payments. Win Win.

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    If it's costly and you can afford it .............no worries, If you can't afford to lose time and money that's different and need to be cautious and spin the relationship out a bit. Try testing her out with a 20% pay cut and see how she takes it.

    On the subject of disipation in general, if I could have back all the money I've spent on women , booze and drugs I would need a truck to take the money to the bank but my life would have been very quiet.

    You're gonna snuff it one day anyway to enjoy life while you can and if you get a few knocks and bruises along the way...........man up.

    Some musical advice.




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    Dr Willy prescribes two weeks in phuket with different birds. Take twice daily after meals.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scottish Gary View Post
    Yep this one was different.

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    Gary I am sorry but I have to say it..

    Yep, older and much more experienced..... Gary the brain is in the northern part of the body.

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    Cut and run.

    If you haven't the heart to do that, least make it clear that rent stops the moment you meet the mother.

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    Ive no problem shagging like a dog with two cocks providing this particular dog has some Kamagra Jelly in its Pedigree Chum. I m fine when my relationships last about 12 hours because that way I don't get emotionally involved but as soon as I get to know them I suddenly start to get all protective and feel the need to save them. I start falling in love and spunking money. I wish I could just have fun with a girl for a few weeks and then just turn of the emotional tap but I cant.

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    Ask a mate to slap you upside.

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    Gary - you are the same as most guys, except that you are admitting it. There are many guys on this forum who have not slept with bargirls - they are called liars.

    Just enjoy it at 45 you are still young enough to have a ball. Just let it take you where it leads - all experiences are different.

    It has got to be better than wandering around George St at the weekend getting knock backs from fat ugly slags.

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    gotta kiss a lota frogs before you find a Prince .

    surely you can change the sexs around

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    Next time you see her don't give her a dime and make her pay her way. Check out if she will pass the "for better or worse..." test.

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    Half the planet would be getting divorced if that was the criteria.


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    Do not produce kids, Gary

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    I'm sure a Haj or holiday in Somali may help.

    I was saved from selling my arse my a kind Thai woman who resued me from a life of dbauchery and JJ who saved me from the celtic alcoholic stupor.

    We each make our bed but once smitten in Pattaya?

    Patters cannt really comment as in 20 years despite invite from one DDs mate and scots friend who had a band playing Pats when in BKK Ive never been tempted ,no prude Ive been to Nana etc but sordid seaside seems so at odds with my love of nature.
    I used to have a job at a calendar factory.
    I got the sack because
    I took a couple of days off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Iceman123 View Post
    Gary - you are the same as most guys, except that you are admitting it. There are many guys on this forum who have not slept with bargirls - they are called liars.

    Just enjoy it at 45 you are still young enough to have a ball. Just let it take you where it leads - all experiences are different.

    It has got to be better than wandering around George St at the weekend getting knock backs from fat ugly slags.
    Pretty much nails it. Just don't invest more than you can afford to lose. Otherwise, carry on. You only get a few seasons.....ain't no reruns.

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    How many sponsors, besides you, does she have? How much gambling debt does she owe back home? Don't be a fool Gary.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pseudolus View Post
    Next time you see her don't give her a dime and make her pay her way. Check out if she will pass the "for better or worse..." test.
    Games are always enjoyable.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rural Surin
    Games are always enjoyable.
    Connect 4?

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    She doesn't want to be saved
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    She just wants what he has saved!

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    If anybody can write an instruction book about how to deal with a woman when your brain is firmly wedged in your crutch then that person will make a fortune.

    Garry join the rest of us who have loved and lost.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Iceman123
    Gary - you are the same as most guys, except that you are admitting it. There are many guys on this forum who have not slept with bargirls - they are called liars.
    Merely 'sleeping with a bargirl' (such coy terminology for having sex with a prostitute) does not make anyone here 'the same' as Gary.

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    Come on Cyrille - lighten up and give us a few of your experiences with Bargirls.

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