I am attempting to locate a lost British friend who lives in Nakhon Phanom

[OhOh]

The request was for help to find a person. Some people advised not to post information on this board of the person which may lead to the person being "found". I agree with this viewpoint.

You on the other hand accuse some of being "cynical assholes", after a post aimed at my reply.

I may be in error, and if so you deserve better. On the other hand I may have replied correctly and in that case your are being a hypocrite.

[nidhogg]

You on the other hand accuse some of being "cynical assholes", after a post aimed at my reply.

The reply by Dumbo was after your post, yes. Whether it was in direct reply to your snide comment is somewhat debatable.

My reply was to Dumbo who said along the lines of "Some of you".

Believe it or not, not everything is about you mate.

However, subsequently, your post WAS directed to me, along the lines of you would look forward to my details being posted, and thats what you got the red for. Well deserved in my opinion.

Like I said, there is no real problem in posting a name or such - the problems arise when a name is linked to a board name -

"I am looking for Joe Bloggs, he used the name "fucktard"" on this board would indeed be a problem.

[OhOh]

I first met Robert Tresoldi in Thailand in 1993 and we became good friends. He has visited me in San Diego, California and would regularly email and telephone. He was especially fond of my mother who recently died at age 95.

My friends and I would see Robert regularly when we took our holiday in Thailand. My brother and sister also really liked Robert and are keenly interested in his well being.

I have not heard from Robert since November of 2010. He has never gone that long without communicating. Robert would also send humorous emails on a regular basis.

Robert retired and moved from Leicester, England to Nakhon Phanom, Thailand about 6 years ago. He married a Thai lady.

I have been trying to contact Robert with no success since November of 2010. I have emailed him 10 times and also sent 2 short letters with my email address inside.

I noticed on google that someone has seen Robert Tresoldi, but I don't know how long ago that was. I then found this teakdoor site.

I will greatly appreciate any help in finding my wonderful friend.

Thank you,
Dumbo

Do I take it then that you have no problem posting the contact details of of a named person from a named location but only if he is a Teakdoor member?

[nidhogg]

^ show me the link to a board name. If you can't, run along and play elsewhere.

[OhOh]

Cant walk the walk so run the run instead.

[nidhogg]

^ yawn.

[OhOh]

Out of breath so soon?

[Guza]

Hi Dumbo,

I would like to send you an Email about Rob as he was a good friend of mine too. I cannot send you one here as I have not done any post. Is there anyway I can contact you.

Many Thanks

Jo

[Ratchaburi]

Thank you for the positive responses. Robert is and always will be an outstanding friend. My motives are sincere. I am afraid that he is possibly dead, and that is why I am investigating.

Robert is 59, real heavy in the stomach region and does not eat a healthy diet. His friends joke with him about his regular meal...steak, double order of frys and a large coke.


I used his first and last name because Robert is quite a common name. I also noticed that someone else used his first and last name before I did. That is how I discovered this site.

I am a long-time Asian traveler (since 1990). I am a member of the Global Gentlemen's Club and its predecessor since 2000. I will check with the British embassy. Thank you for the suggestion.

Dumbo

P.S. Someone said I could possibly be a bill collector. Now that is a good one. My 2 siblings and longtime traveling buddy are also worried about Robert.

P.P.S. If anyone wants to contact me about Robert privately they can send me a pm through the Global Gentlemen's Club. My name there is Dumbo.

[Guza]

Hello, my name is Melissa Tresoldi. I came across this site and found you had been asking for the whereabouts of my father, Robert Tresoldi.

It was a big shock to all the family that he had passed away on the 2nd October 2010. He had mentioned you and your family to myself and my mother and thought highly of you. My mum had told me that your mother has also passed away, im sorry to hear that. It touched me to find that you had made such an effort to find his whereabouts.

Thank you and take care.

Melissa

[Satonic]

Hello, my name is Melissa Tresoldi. I came across this site and found you had been asking for the whereabouts of my father, Robert Tresoldi.

It was a big shock to all the family that he had passed away on the 2nd October 2010. He had mentioned you and your family to myself and my mother and thought highly of you. My mum had told me that your mother has also passed away, im sorry to hear that. It touched me to find that you had made such an effort to find his whereabouts.

Thank you and take care.

Melissa

Touching as it is that you have found each other, I suggest you PM each other and make contact away from a public forum. Its a sensitive issue and I'm sure you have a lot to discuss which doesn't need to be part of the public domain.

Sorry for your loss

[Guza]

No your right however it wouldn't allow me to send a PM unfortunately... to add it to the forum was a last resort....

Thank you

[Dumbo]

Hello Melissa,

I took Satonic's advice and attempted to pm you, but I need 20 posts to do so and only have 11. I don't know how else to send you my email address.

I again want to say how sorry I, my brother, sister and John (Robert's and my long-time traveling buddy) felt when we discovered Robert had died.

Robert spent a week here in San Diego with us. My mother said that Robert was one of the nicest, most friendly and generous friends I had ever brought home. Robert gave my mother 2 gifts, both beautiful books with fascinating photos and histories of Leicester and England.

Hopefully, I can somehow get my email address to you.

Maurice aka Mort

[sabaii sabaii]

Make another 8 posts, go the games room, will take you 5 minutes