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    I read up on this situation, and according to several of the main feminist sites, you are all full of shit. Nothing is ever the womans fault. All men are bastards..may as well just accept the facts. The OP must have been totally responsible for everything that has ever gone wrong in his Ex's life. His guilt is well justified...and the EX.....poor woman.

    We men are also collectively responsible for everything that has ever gone wrong in the world; especially if we are white, Anglo-Saxon, or anything of that sort. Only gay men are exempt... and even that can be pushing it a bit...

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    Guys appreciate all your posts and advice as all well intended.
    I would like to point out though that I feel no guilt at all regards divorcing her, re marrying or being extremely happy with my Thai wife and my life.

    The only concern I have is that she involves my daughter and grand kids in this and I have no wish to see them being pawns in the ex's stupid games.
    I guess I should tell my kids to just not inform me of her latest accusations as when they relay it on I feel like I need to at least explain to them the actual facts or the fallacy of the claim.
    If I ignore her at a function it makes for uneasiness for those around.
    My family are over powered by her and dont want to upset her out of respect even though they know what she does is destructive.
    No one should under estimate the power a Mother can exercise over her siblings.
    If not for my desire to stay connected with my daughter and her family I would not give a thought to my ex at all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thetyim View Post
    Ignore your ex and take care of the new wife.
    She must be feeling a bit awkward at a farang xmas do.
    Worry about her, not the ex.
    nice advice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aussie Tigger
    I guess I should tell my kids to just not inform me of her latest accusations as when they relay it on I feel like I need to at least explain to them the actual facts or the fallacy of the claim.
    Make it a family rule that from now on you do not wish to hear anything she has to say about you. 20 years is patience enough.

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    more good advice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aussie Tigger
    Is there no escape from an ex farang wife?
    Til death do us part!! Some take this vow to the extreme just to make your life miserable.

    Quote Originally Posted by Thetyim
    Ignore your ex and take care of the new wife. She must be feeling a bit awkward at a farang xmas do. Worry about her, not the ex.
    Exactly.

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    takes two to tango. your kids are old enough to know whats up. and the grandkids get an extra xmas.

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    In all seriousness, she probably needs to talk to her doctor about hormone replacement therapy to help her cope with menopause, or is she older than that?

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    Hey Lighten up Tiger. Next time you speak to her just hope it through a medium!!!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by thehighlander959 View Post
    Hey Lighten up Tiger. Next time you speak to her just hope it through a medium!!!!!!
    Don't say that, from the sound of it she'd take great delight in haunting him!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rural Surin View Post
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    What sad sad creatures we are.
    Speak for yourself Jeff.
    Some don't have the ability of aquiring clear connections...
    Even sadder.
    Yes, you need to use the metal collander like this bloke is doing to pick up a clear signal.



    The plastic ones ones don't work well - especially if it is raining very hard or if you have a corrugated iron roof.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Aussie Tigger
    The only concern I have is that she involves my daughter and grand kids in this and I have no wish to see them being pawns in the ex's stupid games.
    hopefully they are intelligent enough to sort it out

    using kids etc as a weapon is unforgiveable and very stupid

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    Quote Originally Posted by Koojo
    Yes, be sure to be as physically intimate with her as decency will allow.
    Lick her cute little ear while looking directly across at your ex wife.
    Stroke her firm little ass and give your ex a big wink.
    Compliment her figure at every turn whenever the ex is within hearing.
    Has it ever crossed your mind, to become, if you aren't already, a marriage guidance councillor?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aussie Tigger
    Is there no escape from an ex farang wife?
    Filipina wife problems, Farang old bag problems, you sure can pick em. Tell her about how mush money you have been scammed out of, maybe she will feel better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Koojo View Post
    Or get her whacked.
    That could be lucrative. How much we.... Ahh, never mind.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chassamui
    The fact that you got over it and she clearly did not, is eating away at her. You committed the cardinal sin of being happy and successful, without her.
    How true your words are .

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    Keep living your life, Tigger. She's entombed with the memories and bitterness. Have sympathy for her but dont let her get to you.

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    My divorced parents were at loggerheads till the day they put my Father in a coffin and cremated him.

    It was a relief for me that the bickering was finally over.

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    Amazingly, my parents fought constantly until they separated (in 1982), but since then they've actually gotten along very well- breaking up was the best thing that ever could have happened to their relationship.

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    Quote Originally Posted by alwarner View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by thehighlander959 View Post
    Hey Lighten up Tiger. Next time you speak to her just hope it through a medium!!!!!!
    Don't say that, from the sound of it she'd take great delight in haunting him!

    From what I've read she's doing that already.

    Ignore the witch - take care of your wife and tell the kids you don't give a shit what the ex says. Merry Christmas

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    I reckon the kids are old enough to know what's what.

    ignore your wife, tell the kids you dont want to hear it.

    look after your new wife.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pesky tourist View Post

    Ignore the witch -

    If you throw some water over her she'll melt.
    It's true.................I seen it in a movie.

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    a good friend got the shock of his life when he opened his e-mails to see a picture of his new house and his divorced wife demanding half its value, he lives outside a remote village,?????

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    Quote Originally Posted by r1 pet View Post
    a good friend got the shock of his life when he opened his e-mails to see a picture of his new house and his divorced wife demanding half its value, he lives outside a remote village,?????
    That's funny.

    Where's she? and where's he?

    And what's she going to do about it?

    Would he like me to mediate?

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    Quote Originally Posted by koman View Post
    I read up on this situation, and according to several of the main feminist sites, you are all full of shit. Nothing is ever the womans fault. All men are bastards..may as well just accept the facts. The OP must have been totally responsible for everything that has ever gone wrong in his Ex's life. His guilt is well justified...and the EX.....poor woman.

    We men are also collectively responsible for everything that has ever gone wrong in the world; especially if we are white, Anglo-Saxon, or anything of that sort. Only gay men are exempt... and even that can be pushing it a bit...
    You've heard the one about the tree falling in the forest and if no one's around to hear it does it still make a noise.

    The real question is.
    If a man speaks and there is no woman around to hear him speak , is he still wrong?
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