I read up on this situation, and according to several of the main feminist sites, you are all full of shit. Nothing is
ever the womans fault. All men are bastards..may as well just accept the facts. The OP must have been totally responsible for everything that has ever gone wrong in his Ex's life. His guilt is well justified...and the EX.....poor woman.
We men are also collectively responsible for everything that has ever gone wrong in the world; especially if we are white, Anglo-Saxon, or anything of that sort. Only gay men are exempt... and even that can be pushing it a bit...