Has anyone married a bar girl?

**Fingers_in_pies** · 03-09-2006, 11:04 PM

A friend of mine is planning on marrying a bar girl, he has been with her for a number of years and she still works in the bar. There has been ups and downs and he is cool with the thought that although she supposably doesn't go with men she wanks them off in the bar and anything that goes on in there is cool. She now though works outside getting the men in, now i have walked past this bar many a time and she hasnt been outside. I tell him and he says "oh she is just lazy dont worry about it". Right after this he says he has been sending her £500 pounds a month to build a house in Burriram. He hasnt seen any pics and she isnt overseeing the build.
Dont get me wrong she is a lovely girl and while i lived in BKK she helped me set my flat up and showed me how bills are paid etc. He says he loves her but doesnt trust her, so how can this work? Has anyone else been in a proper relationship with a bar girl?

I sometimes go on this forum to ask questions and some of the members are a strange lot who are brain washed by their so called beautiful bar girls Bar Girls & Bar Ladies - Thailand Bargirls, nightlife in Asia - Thailand Bargirls, nightlife in Asia

Sorry i start alot of threads i just have alot of questions and as alot of the people on here are ex pats and have experience in Thailand i just like to know your opinions.

**Little Chuchok** · 03-09-2006, 11:06 PM

Love is blind

**kingwilly** · 03-09-2006, 11:08 PM

surely that's a rhetorical question.

**Rigger** · 03-09-2006, 11:09 PM

Your mates not real bright is he
£500 and she is still at the bar come on

**dirtydog** · 03-09-2006, 11:10 PM

Originally Posted by Fingers_in_pies

she supposably doesn't go with men she wanks them off in the bar

I probably know her then

cant beat those sort of bars

Hell they got wife swapping in the UK, ok the guy aint getting his share but I feel sure she is enjoying herself

**Fingers_in_pies** · 03-09-2006, 11:10 PM

Thankyou Rigger .... thats exactly what i said to him!

**Spin** · 03-09-2006, 11:16 PM

Your friend a "troll" by any chance?

**RDN** · 03-09-2006, 11:19 PM

What's her name and what's the bar? Let's all have a go and report back!

**Fingers_in_pies** · 03-09-2006, 11:20 PM

nope, i nor he has ever trolled.

**Fingers_in_pies** · 03-09-2006, 11:21 PM

lol @ RDN yeah thats a great idea but i am not sure my mate would appreciate that gesture

**Thetyim** · 03-09-2006, 11:22 PM

Originally Posted by Fingers_in_pies

Has anyone else been in a proper relationship with a bar girl?

Yes thousands of blokes have.

The disaster rate is rather high.

I am sure there must be a few successful BG relationships but most of them end up a failure.

**Blake7** · 03-09-2006, 11:23 PM

But answer the man's question - who's married a bargirl?

I'm also quite interested

**Rigger** · 03-09-2006, 11:26 PM

Originally Posted by Blake7

I'm also quite interested

Why so interested
I think you have a hang up with guys with bar girls

**man with no head** · 03-09-2006, 11:32 PM

Originally Posted by Blake7

But answer the man's question - who's married a bargirl?

I'm also quite interested

How about who has married and then went out for bargirls?

**Fingers_in_pies** · 03-09-2006, 11:33 PM

I dont have anything against it i just feel that he has been somewhat corrupted in a way that a few years ago i was in a relationship with a lap dancer. This girl obviously never prostituted herself but did earn money by flirting with men each night and taking their money from them in a dance for three minutes. I told him and he was like "no i couldnt handle that at all, she chatting to men and taking her clothes off" and then a few years later he is in this situation.

**man with no head** · 03-09-2006, 11:34 PM

Seems like a recipe for disaster to me. Why marry one when for the same money you could have endless ones?

Hypothetically I could not feel confident with a wife like that and I would never consider it.

**Blake7** · 03-09-2006, 11:36 PM

Originally Posted by Rigger

Originally Posted by Blake7

I'm also quite interested

Why so interested
I think you have a hang up with guys with bar girls

yes, thats right. I give anyone a red whoever so mentions bargirls....

**Spin** · 03-09-2006, 11:37 PM

Your mate sounds like a right dullard. The UK passport agency should recall his passport and stamp it "do not let this dickhead into Thailand"

Sending 35k a month to a bargirl who "does not have sex with customers"

What a cnut!

**Fingers_in_pies** · 03-09-2006, 11:38 PM

I know this is a terrible thing to say but .... i agree with you codger

**Thetyim** · 03-09-2006, 11:38 PM

A lot of blokes come on holiday to LOS and leave their brains at the airport.
I don't know why it happens so often here.

A friend of mine has visited LOS many times and knows the score here but on one trip he decided to get involved with a BG and has been sending money ever since. We have tried telling him but he will not listen.
Your friend will probably be the same

**man with no head** · 03-09-2006, 11:41 PM

Maybe we ought to start scamming people like that. Who needs to work any longer?

**Spin** · 03-09-2006, 11:41 PM

MYGID syndrome?

**Blake7** · 03-09-2006, 11:44 PM

But if you are an Australian ex-con then I suppose that an Issaan peasant turned whore might be a good match.

**Thetyim** · 03-09-2006, 11:49 PM

Originally Posted by Blake7

But if you are an Australian ex-con then I suppose that an Issaan peasant turned whore might be a good match.

Hardly a match

The Isaan girl would win easily

**davethailand** · 03-09-2006, 11:57 PM

Describe a bargirl!
A girl might have worked in 10 bars and gone with 1000 guys or a girl might have worked in 1 bar and gone with 1 or 2 guys.
I met my wife in a bar, the bar i now own if that makes her a bargirl then so what.
If that is the case then yes I married a bargirl.

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