Maid with benefits

[nidhogg]

seems dan is getting pretty bent out of shape here - I am starting to think this is one of those "my friend"..type of situations.

[Mr Earl]

Let be honest here. Someone who can't figure out how to get discretely laid in Thailand is probably not playing with a full pack anyway.

Yep!

Thailand has to be the easiest place in the world to get laid.
Many, many women here are naturally playful, eager to please and have fun.
As someone already mentioned it's not that hard to take two at a time.

We men should remember that many of these women have a good ability to compartmentalize their lives.

Many western men come here so starved for affection they fall head over heels in love with the first skanky little Issan hooker who sticks her tongue up his asshole.
These guys are pretty easy to spot.

And yes it's probably best not to marry one, even if she is a rare "Issan Hairless".

[mooncake]

Without being rude, how is your reading comprehension?
I said the house goes to his daughter, not that it's in her name.
I will spell it out for you so you can understand.
Sorry my bad,...not from comprehension problem tho, but from reading too fast thus I might have skipped over a few key points earlier.
Apology here

It may surprise you but foreingers can legally, 100% fully own buildings.
No.... not that surprise, as I already knew this part, general public knowledge.

.....

[Nawty]

who sticks her tongue up his asshole. These guys are pretty easy to spot.

Blind Freddy would notice anyone walking around with someones tongue sticking out of his arsehole....

[DrAndy]

My friend (genuine) Was complaining at work today that he hasn't been in the saddle for nearly two years with the wife. (Since the baby was born)

It sounds like she has pretty much given up on him, maybe she only ever wanted the cash and the kid ???? if that's the case then GTF out of there.

And that also the house is dirty.

It is really hard to keep a house clean and tidy with a new born, but after two years.....she's taking the piss for sure


I'd just divorce the bitch if I were him.

luckily, you are not him

you know nothing about their relationship and just judge it on your own experience

it is possible she is still suffering from post-birth depression

she may or may not be a bitch, but I am not sure why he is posting stuff like that here for cynical whoremongers to reply to

[Stinky]

My friend (genuine) Was complaining at work today that he hasn't been in the saddle for nearly two years with the wife. (Since the baby was born)

It sounds like she has pretty much given up on him, maybe she only ever wanted the cash and the kid ???? if that's the case then GTF out of there.

And that also the house is dirty.

It is really hard to keep a house clean and tidy with a new born, but after two years.....she's taking the piss for sure


I'd just divorce the bitch if I were him.

you know nothing about their relationship and just judge it on your own experience

Yes odd isn't it people making judgements based from personal experience.

it is possible she is still suffering from post-birth depression

Yes I've heard that one before too.
Ultimately the girl has to pull herself up by her own boot straps, we all do. I'll give the guy credit for trying to help her already though as he has s given her two years so far.

she may or may not be a bitch, but I am not sure why he is posting stuff like that here for cynical whoremongers to reply to

Maybe because of the varying types of characters here and there vastly different life experiences.
Not all of the members here are whoremongers but dose somebody being a whoremonger (cynical or not) not automatically nullify their opinion

[DrAndy]

Yes odd isn't it people making judgements based from personal experience.

not odd, but certainly useless without the proper information

Ultimately the girl has to pull herself up by her own boot straps, we all do. I'll give the guy credit for trying to help her already though as he has s given her two years so far.

nowhere has he mentioned the fact she may be sufferring from depression; they may not even have considered that possibility

but dose somebody being a whoremonger (cynical or not) not automatically nullify their opinion

yes, when a "normal" relationship is being discussed. Most whoremongers have little empathy with women and little knowledge of what a good relationship might entail.

[Stinky]

Yes odd isn't it people making judgements based from personal experience.

not odd, but certainly useless without the proper information

In that case they should go to counseling where the relationship problems can be fully discussed and interpreted instead of asking here.

nowhere has he mentioned the fact she may be sufferring from depression; they may not even have considered that possibility

No he didn't mention anything about depression you did, maybe he'll take note?

yes, when a "normal" relationship is being discussed. Most whoremongers have little empathy with women and little knowledge of what a good relationship might entail.

In my experience whoremongers have a vast amount of relationship experience to call upon. It's not all good but no relationship is, dose that mean that the opinion is any less credible? I doubt it.
Not all relationships are going to work out no matter how much empathy a man has for his woman and it's a two way street no matter which way you look at it, if the woman isn't going to take part in the relationship then it's dead in the water

[deathstardan]

seems dan is getting pretty bent out of shape here - I am starting to think this is one of those "my friend"..type of situations.

Not at all mate.

My mate's 54, I'm 32.

He's got a 9 million house. I have got a 1 1/2 million pad with no pot to piss in.

The reason I posted this was because like many foreigners here, he doesn't have many friends and asked some advice. As I also stated before I aint Grasshopper or master fucking Yoda. So I posted on an annonymous web board for some advice...My bad.

I also found out this just this lunch time.

Regarding the situation, it also transpires that of his combined salaries of B70,000 a month, is not enough according to his *wife* He takes B15,000 for himself and the reast goes to the wife.

Remember, no rent to pay.

He has:

UBC

Internet

Telephone

Electric

water

After those utilities what the fuck does she have to pay?

In my blunt Yoda wisdom I said what the fuck and told him to grow a set and have it out with her.

Remember also. My friend is 54 and working 6 days a week, working 2 teaching jobs in a school and a language centre.

Fuck depression, I think she is taking the piss.

[Travelmate]

He's got a 9 million house

combined salaries of B70,000 a month

Done well on such an extremely low salary.

[klongmaster]

He's got a 9 million house

and working 6 days a week, working 2 teaching jobs in a school and a language centre

something doesn't ring quite true about this...

[deathstardan]

He's got a 9 million house

and working 6 days a week, working 2 teaching jobs in a school and a language centre

something doesn't ring quite true about this...

I'm getting bored of this real quick. I aint a liar, I have been a member of this site for nearly two years.

Before he came to live and make a home and life in Thailand ( about 4 years ago) He had his own house and business in the UK. He got married and sold -up.

He built a house in the Ramintra area of Bangkok and because he has a degree already, he did what a lot of farangs do and started teaching English.

At least he came prepared by doing his CELTA at a UK uni before he came.

I don't know if he's skint but I also know he comes to school in a 1.2 million motor.

Not everyone lies on the internet and not everyone is a failed English teacher.

Anything else? My dinner's getting cold!

[Stinky]

I aint a liar, I have been a member of this site for nearly two years.

Not everyone lies on the internet and not everyone is a failed English teacher.

I dunno.....sounds like you might be lying a little bit

[watterinja]

I'd say that the fellow would be quite within his rights to get a bit on the side & build a relationship, while he lets the frigid one work herself out.

If, after some time, the frigid one defrosts & he's still game, then well & good - if not, then off to buy another case.

[meanzy]

I just asked GF about this, and why Thai girls etc quite like farang. She has got quite a few friends that have farang boyfriends, most of these girls were bargirls I might add. She talked about money constantly whilst discussing tis subject and the amounts as well. One girl she knows is getting 2000 a month english off her car dealer boyfriend. She didn't mention love at any time. She did say that farang tend not to be as violent, drink quite so much and were not so lazy.
I'm not surprised by her answer, she is a rental herself.

Ive been a a motor daeler for twenty years , if business is that good that he can pay her 2g a month , mabee you would give me his number and he could rent my garage from me

[Fabian]

I also found out this just this lunch time.

Regarding the situation, it also transpires that of his combined salaries of B70,000 a month, is not enough according to his *wife* He takes B15,000 for himself and the reast goes to the wife.

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Fuck depression, I think she is taking the piss.

I think that too.

After all it seems those who said he should boot her had a point.

I am sure though Mooncake will soon justify his wife's demands.

[mooncake]

^
And what do I use to justify her demand, when I don’t even know what is she spending on?

That just shows how little you know about me. Do you go through life everyday judging the person based on your own assumption from just little or one sided info you may have heard/read about?

Yes I’m also leaning toward….the greedy bitch theory, secretly
However we can speculate all we want, but unless we know what’s she spending on and the other problems within their family for sure, we really can’t judge any person based on the one side’s given info.

May be she found out that she has the AIDs, and doesn’t want to pass along the virus, but too scared to tell him for the fear of him leaving her?…..or post baby depression ….or some other medical problem and doesn’t know the right word for it in English….etcs.
For example, my aunty had been spending 100k bths/ each cancer’s chemo therapy/every 3 months/ for 2.5 yrs, still she didn’t make it.

But all in all, you have to be pretty stupid giving someone that much of your hard earned money per month without the justification or knowing what will she be spending on, and then complaining about it as you only have 15k to spend a month.

Let be straight here….one hand doesn’t make the clap.

[Fabian]

That's funny, you accuse me of jumping to conclusions while you make one assumption after the other, even out of lack of experience as you admitted yourself.

[Slipstream]

Know a friend of mine out here.

Good dude, works and provides for wife and two kids. She brings up the kids.
After kid no1 was born sex went icey, she turfed him into a separate bed.
But after a while she wanted a second kid so out with the ice and on with the heat.
Kid No2 born and the ice came back on and ever since he's been out in the cold (so-to-speak) on the sex front.
I don't think she's doing it to deliberately piss him off but more of just how she is as a person.
For this reason she doesn't mind him partying and going out to midnight karaoke as long as it's away from the household.
For him there's no live-in maid but his 'dancing' with other women takes place in an entirely different country!

[mooncake]

That's funny, you accuse me of jumping to conclusions while you make one assumption after the other, even out of lack of experience as you admitted yourself.

Yes that’s is funny indeed,...
if you think that jumping to the conclusion (without any doubt since the beginning) based on little info given like yours, is better than mine (constantly changing assumptions based on the new developing evidences given).

At least I haven't make any conclusion yet, unlike you.

[chassamui]

A maid with benefits is only any use to someone who is emotionally sterile. how can you have any kind of benefit with another human being and remain totally detached about it?
Might as well stick it in a blow up doll. it won't complain, it won't refuse you and it don't answer back.

[Stinky]

A maid with benefits is only any use to someone who is emotionally sterile. how can you have any kind of benefit with another human being and remain totally detached about it?

I must disagree with you here Chassa, a maid with benefits is a great way to fulfill a mans sexual needs with out having to have the encumbrance of the relationship.

It offers a good safe working place for a girl that might otherwise be out of work, in a bar or working off the street.

That being said I've never had one that worked out for me, always because I broke the rules or allowed her to break them.

I know one guy in the PI who has it off to a T, happiest man I know.

[DrAndy]

However we can speculate all we want

yep, a TD speciality

one hand doesn’t make the clap.

nope. it takes a cock and a kunt

[DrAndy]

Might as well stick it in a blow up doll. it won't complain, it won't refuse you and it don't answer back.

they have a new Japanese version that does all that

turns them on, apparently

[chassamui]

Happy for you to disagree mate and i can understand your reasoning. I just can't be that detached about it.
Only did it once and it did not feel right for me. Sort of taking advantage if you know what i mean.
Maybe it's just me being a bit backward?