Originally Posted by
baconandeggs
No it isnt. You make your own rules. If a partner voids your customs in favour of hers she isnt worth marrying.
There are millions of fish out there. Throw the duds back.
If you wish to follow your home countries customs, take your wife back to your own country, as I did, no Sin sod.
When we decided to move, live and make our living in Thailand, different story, Sin sod, pigs heads for the jungle spirits, feed monks etc.
At a guess my Sin sod cost less then a western wedding, house built on family land, which my wife/kids will inherit, pain in the ass in-laws they may be, but it is a good long term investment.
As said I make my living here, being part of the extended family and the village as a whole has advantages.
If you, or anyone just wants some shirt, buy, rent in Pattaya, bar girls, long time or short time, is the way to go, don't get married.
Being the rich farang, saving bar girls and their impoverished family is a fools game and it's those who complain the most.