4 years Thai relationship down the drain

[nidhogg]

I've been sending her money (5 to 10K baht) every month without fail since we met.

Big spender.

Meh. Cheap shot - if he had been sending 20-50k a month (or more!) you would have had a go at him also...


OP: sad to say, you assume it was a new boyfriend, might just have been an old husband tired of waiting for the cow to give some milk....

Personally, think you got off lightly. Thank your lucky stars...(and maybe indulge yourself in nailing a few 20 year olds to get over the pain....).

[wasabi]

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[kingwilly]

I've been sending her money (5 to 10K baht) every month without fail since we met.

Big spender.

Meh. Cheap shot - if he had been sending 20-50k a month (or more!) you would have had a go at him also...


OP: sad to say, you assume it was a new boyfriend, might just have been an old husband tired of waiting for the cow to give some milk....

Personally, think you got off lightly. Thank your lucky stars...(and maybe indulge yourself in nailing a few 20 year olds to get over the pain....).

Uha. Sorry, I'm dubious about anyone who sends any money and then thinks that they've saved/bought themselves a girlfriend or wife.

But seriously 5-10k baht means some months he sent 5000 baht. $150. To live on. Surely he had to realise that an amount that low she was never exclusive. Surely.

[nexus123]

Thanks all for their advice and comments. Already got over it.

[thaimeme]

That might've been the quickest newbie first post troll that has ever cross the doors....

A 30 post finish.

Well done nexus.

[wasabi]

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Well if you are a China man from these parts, living in the deep south, why you send money, when you live right next door.

[NZdick1983]

Was she hot? big baps? did she shave her back? did you go bareback? eiei

Nah, my ching ching bro, you'll find someone to love you (and your micro-penis)
very soon.. she will love you loooong time!

*But gotta up the ante, like sponsor your poon tang @ least 50k per mth.. don't be a cheap charlie!

[titan]

Maybe other readers here can give their take on this.

don't air your private life on a public forum ................

[BaitongBoy]

Or your pubic life on a private forum...

[the dogcatcher]

Laosy my GF had a baby by a Thai guy whilst I was working in Greece.
She is now 35 so nice escape for me and she had to leave with nothing cos she can't own my land... she's Laotian.
Thai guy dumped her as soon as he discovered she was pregnant.
Nice one mate. Nuff respect.

[NZdick1983]

^ That sucks bro.. sorry to hear that.

[Latindancer]

Yeah....bummer, man. You had mentioned her many times here...

Oh well. Time for the new model, eh ?

[nidhogg]

Laosy my GF had a baby by a Thai guy whilst I was working in Greece.
She is now 35 so nice escape for me and she had to leave with nothing cos she can't own my land... she's Laotian.
Thai guy dumped her as soon as he discovered she was pregnant.
Nice one mate. Nuff respect.

Sorry to hear that - but from what I recall of your posts, you went into it with your eyes wide open, unlike many.

[Nicethaiza]

just find new ..have million girls in thailand..may u have luck^^

[kingwilly]

Laosy my GF had a baby by a Thai guy whilst I was working in Greece.
She is now 35 so nice escape for me and she had to leave with nothing cos she can't own my land... she's Laotian.
Thai guy dumped her as soon as he discovered she was pregnant.
Nice one mate. Nuff respect.

Sorry to hear that anyway. Guess she fcked up eh?

[nidhogg]

Laosy my GF had a baby by a Thai guy whilst I was working in Greece.
She is now 35 so nice escape for me and she had to leave with nothing cos she can't own my land... she's Laotian.
Thai guy dumped her as soon as he discovered she was pregnant.
Nice one mate. Nuff respect.

Sorry to hear that anyway. Guess she fcked up eh?

Well, from what he said before (IIRC) she fucked up, down, sideways and occasionally from behind...

[kingwilly]

Touche

[bobo746]

Bad luck mate i've been married a couple of times.
I feel your pain.
PS i didn't give my shit away to some long distance tarts.
Bad Luck get on go on they all smell like fish

[BaitongBoy]

Ergo, post her on the Fish Thread...

[alwarner]

Unlucky OP.

96% sure you're on a windup so all I'm going to add is:

You should have been firmer with your pimp hand.

[the dogcatcher]

Thanks for your messages.
I,m using rentals at the moment and I don't have to put up with her family.
Problem was I didn't give her money or gold or fck all. I never have done that and never will.

[NZdick1983]

Thai girls (perhaps most girls) will take advantage of men if they sense any perceived weakness.

Haven't your guys heard that famous expression "Farang roo mak, mai dee" Foreigners that know too much (about Thailand and it's inner workings) are dangerous...

What that really boils down to is, they are less able to use you, if you are strong/knowledgeable about Thailand - or more specifically, Thai people...

Being "nice" in our culture, is seen as a vulnerability in their culture.
That doesn't mean you have to be an asshole (if you aren't one already) it just means you have to strengthen those weaknesses, or hide them very well...

Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen... is the better way to play a relationship with a Thai girl (perhaps any girl)... That's just my observation/opinion, results may vary everyone's an individual and all that...

[bowie]

The games people play...

Doesn't when or where - people are people.

Manage your expectations, read each person as an individual, make no assumptions and keep your guard up. But don't be so cautious you can't have fun or enjoy yourself.

Most, if not all, persons who frequent these forums are well advised of the many "cons" that exist. The cons are well advertised, the readers are forewarned, so, if you get hurt, and need to assign blame, take a look in the mirror.

Again, people are people, the good, the bad, and the ugly, and you will find them all, everywhere you go. So, be selective, be cautious, choose wisely and have fun.

Life is too short. Play the hand you're dealt, manage your expectations and enjoy life to the fullest.

[Pragmatic]

Thai girls (perhaps most girls) will take advantage of men if they sense any perceived weakness.

Haven't your guys heard that famous expression "Farang roo mak, mai dee" Foreigners that know too much (about Thailand and it's inner workings) are dangerous...

What that really boils down to is, they are less able to use you, if you are strong/knowledgeable about Thailand - or more specifically, Thai people...

Being "nice" in our culture, is seen as a vulnerability in their culture.
That doesn't mean you have to be an asshole (if you aren't one already) it just means you have to strengthen those weaknesses, or hide them very well...

Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen... is the better way to play a relationship with a Thai girl (perhaps any girl)... That's just my observation/opinion, results may vary everyone's an individual and all that...

I have to agree one hundred percent. Especially the

Foreigners that know too much (about Thailand and it's inner workings) are dangerous...

This is the reason why Thai ladies keep their new boyfriend close when showing them off in the village. Better to have them ignorant than educated. Keep them away from other farangs that are knowledgeable. It makes life easier for them with their agenda.

[NZdick1983]

^ Hey Pragmatic, Kia ora bro..

It's unfortunate, but true...

Of course, this is just a generalization and doesn't apply to every, single girl (duuurrrr).....
Believe me, they make huge generalizations about us 'farang' as they love to call us, as well..
I still love them though, not saying they are evil - or out to get you , just don't flaunt your wealth, keep your financial shit private. Show off, then you are obligated to share some of that hard earned coin, with your bint.

I go by the mantra "pretend to be skint, to your bint"... just keepin' it real fellas