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    Quote Originally Posted by kobe44 View Post
    and the parents in charge of everything seemingly.
    And they will be for the rest of her natural life.

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    Do you intend to stay in USA or go live in Thailand , if she is in the USA with you , you may have more control over the way the mariage works.
    I dont meen in a bad way just she is not controled too much by the familey in Thailand and will be able to live more free to do what she wants and be happy, just a thought.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mozzbie47 View Post
    I have a Thai wife, I also met her on the internet, realised strait away she is what lv'e been looking for. She works long hrs to better our future, tells me where every $ goes, her family never ask for money and she never, never lies.
    Dont take much notice of those who put Thai women down, l know plenty of guys happily married to Thai women from all walks of life.
    I know plenty of guys who crossed the road without looking first and lived to tell the tale. Doesn't mean you shouldn't check beforehand.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mozzbie47 View Post
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    her family never ask for money and she never, never lies.
    Is she smarter than you?
    Iv'e got to say yes to that, she might read this, actually, she is no fool, much smarter than most..

    so, she can lie without you realising

    smart girl eh?

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    Quote Originally Posted by kobe44 View Post
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    Mr 2 posts. Have you got any money?
    What's the age difference?
    What's the weight difference?
    No, I don't have much money and I've told her that. The age difference is two years. The weight difference is probably 75 pounds.
    In whose favour?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marmite the Dog View Post
    What's a wedding nowadays?

    It's a mugs game.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DJ Pat View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Marmite the Dog View Post
    What's a wedding nowadays?

    It's a mugs game.
    Not for the mother of the bride. Remember the all-important sinsot...

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    ^That's all a marriage to a farang is for, the sinsot.

    The farang should be able to see that and not be stupid enough to just think with his genitals, but like many farangs, they become blind, lost puppies the minute a Thai woman opens her legs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Koojo View Post
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    A 'friend' (guy i've known a while) turned up here with his new wife from Thailand whom he'd met online. Apparently her father was a well placed government official and her brother a doctor, and she didn't drink except the odd glass of wine.
    I suppose the big difference is that he met his woman back home, not in Thailand, so someone must have paid her way
    No, he met her on asiafriendfinder or something, went to Thailand to marry her, then bought her to China.

    NO

    I was talking about the OP's woman - read his post
    OK, but it seems the OP also met his woman online, from this a gather they met online and chatted for a year before they met in person in the states.
    Was he instrumental in her going to the states?
    So I met this Thai woman about a year ago. We had been chatting online for about a year casually before that.
    I didn't give her any money to come to the states. I have never sent her money and don't really ever plan to. She hasn't asked for that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by crocodilexp View Post
    Think for yourself, don't let the internet cynics bring you down.

    Everything you said about her is positive. Do you see any negatives about her, except that she is Thai? If you do not, you might want to wait & watch for a while more -- everybody has some negatives. It's important to learn what they are and that you can live with them.

    There is nothing particularly unreliable about Thais women as a group. Most Farang in Thailand get the wrong impression, since they almost always hang out with a specific subset of Thai women. No matter where the couple met, if a girl is primarily looking to meet a generic Farang rather than dating Thai guys, that is a big red flag (80% are after the money, 20% have some other flaw/unconventional characteristic).

    That said, Thai thinking and concepts of truth, family & social cohesion is different from ours. Make sure you understand the situations in which your Thai partner is likely to bend the truth -- it may not be out of malice, but it will happen.

    Last, but not least...

    Why get married at all? In today's world, there are only 2 good reasons for a man to get married: (a) having children and raising them as a couple (b) immigration requirements. Marriage no longer guarantees or improves companionship as it once did. A wife can dump you as quickly and easily as a live-in girlfriend can, with the extra benefit of taking 50%+ of your assets. Don't marry just because she's eager to do it, and you fear losing her.

    Prenuptial agreement is, of course, a must. As a lawyer, she ought to understand, and even remind you of that.

    The only reason I'd consider marrying her is to get her here. We have great times together and it would be nice to see her more often other than a couple times a year for a week or two. She said she never had Thai BF before because none of them asked her out apparently. I agree with all your points about marriage basically being overrated.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DJ Pat View Post
    ^That's all a marriage to a farang is for, the sinsot.

    The farang should be able to see that and not be stupid enough to just think with his genitals, but like many farangs, they become blind, lost puppies the minute a Thai woman opens her legs.
    In some cases, a sinsod package isn't necessarily a guarantor....Thai-Thai or Thai-Farang marriages.

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    Quote Originally Posted by nevets View Post
    Do you intend to stay in USA or go live in Thailand , if she is in the USA with you , you may have more control over the way the mariage works.
    I dont meen in a bad way just she is not controled too much by the familey in Thailand and will be able to live more free to do what she wants and be happy, just a thought.

    I intend to stay in the USA. She is currently back in Thailand, but would live here if we got married.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kobe44
    She said she never had Thai BF before because none of them asked her out apparently.
    Quote Originally Posted by kobe44
    She is currently back in Thailand, but would live here if we got married.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kobe44
    She always mentions when I ask that she is different from thai women.
    An unrelated piece ow wisdom ... a whores is a whore

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    Quote Originally Posted by kobe44 View Post
    She said she never had Thai BF before because none of them asked her out apparently..
    Where in the rule book does it tell all Thai females to tell farang men that they ''have never had a Thai BF''?

    And most stupid farang men actually believe it.

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    The op needs to consider the fact that she may be lying.
    It's inconceivable at first to the average western guy that a woman would lie like that, but they do.
    He seems to believe everthing she tells him.
    He needs to cynic up.
    And he really should go to Thailand and visit her village and parents.

    Sounds like a bit of a sad sack to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DJ Pat View Post
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    She said she never had Thai BF before because none of them asked her out apparently..
    Where in the rule book does it tell all Thai females to tell farang men that they ''have never had a Thai BF''?

    And most stupid farang men actually believe it.
    You'd be surprised what the percentage of Thai girls [19-26] that have never had a bf [of any sort] as of yet....

    Guess one's mindset is derived by one's circles and experiences, therefore develop the expected stereotypes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rural Surin
    You'd be surprised what the percentage of Thai girls [19-26] that have never had a bf [of any sort] as of yet....
    It is surprising how long it takes some of these women to become interested in dating men. Parents discourage the girls from seeing men until they finish uni and are into their careers. The women get near 30 years old, then the parents panic. You get the whole family frantically looking for a love interest for the daughter.

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    Quote Originally Posted by misskit View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Rural Surin
    You'd be surprised what the percentage of Thai girls [19-26] that have never had a bf [of any sort] as of yet....
    It is surprising how long it takes some of these women to become interested in dating men. Parents discourage the girls from seeing men until they finish uni and are into their careers. The women get near 30 years old, then the parents panic. You get the whole family frantically looking for a love interest for the daughter.
    These social structures apply not only towards a middle-class structure, but even more so amongst the lower-classes....

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    The OP has called the samaritans from the top of the empire state building and threatening to jump, as he is that depressed listening to all the broken hearted cynics in Thailand.

    Well done guys who needs Phuket or Pattaya when you have the teak door cynic brigade

    Do what feels right get married in Thailand if you do, if it all turns out pear shaped you can do a runner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by misskit
    It is surprising how long it takes some of these women to become interested in dating men. Parents discourage the girls from seeing men until they finish uni and are into their careers. The women get near 30 years old, then the parents panic. You get the whole family frantically looking for a love interest for the daughter.
    apparently, dildoes and various vibrating devices, except for washing machines, are banned in Thailand

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    DrAndy, l thought today, a flip side to your question in 66, is she smarter than myself, l would trust her with my life mate.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mozzbie47
    l would trust her with my life mate
    How many, now murdered, farangs have said that before expiring ?

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    If you treat a thai woman with respect and set ground rules, in the marriage she will respect you.

    treat her like shite and very likely you will end up dead, the difference in cultures at times is to much,

    but hey any marriage has its difficulties.

    if you look around Thailand and all the foreign expat scum that get knocked off, is it very surprisng these days.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rural Surin
    what the percentage of Thai girls [19-26] that have never had a bf [of any sort] as of yet...
    I would be surprised, if it's more than 10%.

    Quote Originally Posted by misskit
    some of these women to become interested in dating men
    SOME never do. but the majority of girls, post 14, are at it like rabbits, with men or other women. Or are you suggesting that women don't have sexual urges?

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