Thread: Americans having 3 wives

After all it's perfectly natural for someone as racist and horrible as you who would resort to such procedures.

It's a sentitive issue because that's how my 'family' judged me when I married my Thai wife.

I'm ever so sorry about that! I hope they understand now.

I only brought up the sex part becaue it does bother many women and I wanted to know your opinion on it.

If I had done something like that I wouldn't be afraid to admit it and it would be no different than talking about anything else.

You cannot call me a racist or bigot because I merely dislike American women when I clearly stated I had a favorable opinion of European women.

thats funny surasak, I have been married to two nonwhite women and have never even had 1 person that was white treat my women with disrespect. even traveling through Kentucky,Tennessee,the Carolinas,Texas,Illinois.Indiana,Missouri,Kansas, Colorado

never had Any white women stare them down or anything like that. no Kentucky bubba's making racial comments

however,I have had Mexican men and Filipino men make comments about a white man being with women of their nationality. my comments to them were generally something like -- WELL IF YA HAD A BIGGER DICK or AIN'T MY FAULT YOUR MEN CAN'T TAKE CARE OF THEIR WOMEN

Originally Posted by Ice Maiden

I'm ever so sorry about that! I hope they understand now.

They won't accept that I married a foreigner. So, I choose my wife over my family.

So, yeah, some of my anger towards American women is from my adopted sister, real mother, and grandparents and their racist attitudes.

Originally Posted by KID

thats funny surasak, I have been married to two nonwhite women and have never even had 1 person that was white treat my women with disrespect. even traveling through Kentucky,Tennessee,the Carolinas,Texas,Illinois.Indiana,Missouri,Kansas, Colorado

never had Any white women stare them down or anything like that. no Kentucky bubba's making racial comments

however,I have had Mexican men and Filipino men make comments about a white man being with women of their nationality. my comments to them were generally something like -- WELL IF YA HAD A BIGGER DICK or AIN'T MY FAULT YOUR MEN CAN'T TAKE CARE OF THEIR WOMEN

Consider yourself lucky then. My parents probably would have burned crosses in the yards of blacks if someone gave them the wood and gasoline. It was always 'n****r' this and 'n****r' that when I was growing up. My mother even refused to let me go to neighborhood schools because the white/black ratio was too high for her.

Originally Posted by surasak

Originally Posted by Ice Maiden

I'm ever so sorry about that! I hope they understand now.

They won't accept that I married a foreigner. So, I choose my wife over my family.

So, yeah, some of my anger towards American women is from my adopted sister, real mother, and grandparents and their racist attitudes.

Really sad story that is.

Well, it is true that more and more American men are going overseas for wives for the sake of more traditional families. In general American women don't want to settle down early and those that do are typically lowly educated from the South or Western states. I think family values are dead here and for one to find a wife with better values one must go overseas...whether it's England, Germany, Thailand, or wherever. I could just have easily travelled to Europe and found a European woman instead. It just so happens that my travels regarding the computer industry took me to Asia instead.

I knew this would be the result with my family if I married a foreigner but I wasn't about to let them ruin my happiness. I am the first one in the family history to marry a non-White and I think that pisses them off.

I don't mean to talk shitty but I tried for many years to find a decent one here and just couldn't (for a man here to get married over 33 years in age is testament to that). When the first thing that comes out of a woman's mouth is "how much money do you make?" it's a huge turn-off and reflective of the overall loss of values here. What should be more important is "will you love me all my life?"

my Mexican wife's father refused to accept me coz i was white. it was a lot of the reason we divorced

but after raising 2 kids alone from the women for 14 years .he has had a change of heart and treats me very well now when i see him

Originally Posted by Ice Maiden

Originally Posted by surasak

Originally Posted by Ice Maiden

I'm ever so sorry about that! I hope they understand now.

They won't accept that I married a foreigner. So, I choose my wife over my family.

So, yeah, some of my anger towards American women is from my adopted sister, real mother, and grandparents and their racist attitudes.

Really sad story that is.

It's hard to explain to her why I don't want her to meet anyone in my family considering that Thais are generally accepting of anyone.

Originally Posted by KID

my Mexican wife's father refused to accept me coz i was white. it was a lot of the reason we divorced

but after raising 2 kids alone from the women for 14 years .he has had a change of heart and treats me very well now when i see him

When I was in high school and started dating my parents always told me "better not bring home anyone who isn't like you." That meaning of course different skin.

I think you met the wrong women dude!

But I would never settle down young though, I have to say. I'm only eighteen right now and I wish to settle during my early thirties but you cant plan everything out can you?

I may just settle early. But really, there are many types or women and men some just dont appeal to others but there is no need talking shitty about it.

The most offensive thing to suggest to an American woman is that she stay home to take care of children while the man goes to work. I wanted my children to have a stable life unlike the one I had going from babysitter to babysitter while both parents worked. In the end my mother spent the family to death and bankruptcy and divorce followed.

One of the problems here is the 'pressure' for both spouses to work to pay for all the material objects. All the women I have met and dated here judged a person based on material wealth. Dozens. And the same characteristic from the ones I have worked with. It's fairly rare to find an American woman who simply wants to raise a family. I think that's wrong and it's a big reason I started looking overseas. Just never made it to Europe.

Frankly I would be happy staying home while the wife works but, let's face it, it's a man's world and generally a man will earn more than a woman in the same job. That's not bigoted or anything it's the hard truth.

I dont agree about a man earning more, that is so old school. Have you heard about equal rights yet?

In theory, in practice, it's still not there (which I do support, BTW, strange that we haven't had a female President yet).

I didn't say that a man should, but, that's the reality.

It has been in practise everywhere I have been in the UK!

I dont know about the procedure in the U.S but I'm sure if it is against the law that is a criminal offense and should be dealt with appropriatley??

Well, we did have an Equal Rights Amendment proposed for the Constitution but it never passed.

In theory the law prohibits discrimination but in reality it's common for men and women to earn different here.

It's also illegal to rob banks and kill people but that doesn't stop those crimes either.

^Oh, and if I came off sounding brash and coarse it wasn't intended and I apologize. As you can see many things affect my opinions on things and the wounds from my family's failing to accept my wife run deep.

I never knew that about the U.S but it definatley rarely happens in the UK if even at all.

Comparing equal human rights to bank robbery just isn't even a subject to be compared in my opinion.

But bottom line is, Surasak, I dont agree with some things you say but I cant be bothered to sit and debate until all hours of the morning or all the time actually. I just respect you as a poster with your own opinion. Usually I would have continued this debate but I just cant be bothered with that anymore to be honest!

Because you are a newbie to me at least I know a little about yourself now though because I didn't know anything before and I'm sorry about your family situation once again.

Must go to bed now though! Nighty night dont let the bed bugs bite.

What I meant, of course, is that legislation often times doesn't change how one acts or behaves towards other persons.

I also responded to your other post regarding wanting to know things about me, but, I suppose you didn't see that.

In short I tend to be highly outspoken but never afraid to change my mind if someone convinces me otherwise.

I think we will get along just fine then because I am similar!

I'll read your post right away then.

I've been involved in politics a long time (since the 1980s) and one rule of politics is to stake out a position far mor extreme than the one you would settle for. That way you can compromise

Read my intro thread in the newbie section as well. Originally my avatar was the chemical compound responsible for the hot flavor in peppers (just so it makes sense).

Save you some time:

https://teakdoor.com/newbies-lounge/5342-howdy-all.html (Howdy, all...)

https://teakdoor.com/issues/5830-is-i...tml?post154811