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Issues There is much going on in the world and the opportunity to discuss these issues and how they affect your world is always relevant. Your opinion is important and though we might not solve the problems confronting society, we just might open someones eyes. What is your opinion?

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Old 12-08-2008, 09:55 PM   #21 (permalink)
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depends which figures you want to believe.
those that have a cite as opposed to those pulled outa thin air .
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Old 12-08-2008, 10:23 PM   #22 (permalink)
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erm, probably more common than you would think
much, much more common.
OK.

And the point you're both making is?

Can't imagine.

'It's OK for women to be stupid about this, despite the benefit of education & media because they're only women?'

Neither of you would be that crass. So, what is your point?
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Old 12-08-2008, 10:40 PM   #23 (permalink)
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OK. And the point you're both making is? Can't imagine. 'It's OK for women to be stupid about this, despite the benefit of education & media because they're only women?' Neither of you would be that crass. So, what is your point?
I meant that having unprotected sex (male or female, western or nonwestern, gay or straight) is quite common...

Not smart, not good, but not rare.

I know of quite a number of people who admit to it.
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Old 12-08-2008, 10:50 PM   #24 (permalink)
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those that have a cite as opposed to those pulled outa thin air .
can't remember where I got the figure from but it referred to female to male, so my bad.

in any case i am highly skeptical of the HIV message.
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Old 12-08-2008, 11:05 PM   #25 (permalink)
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I meant that having unprotected sex (male or female, western or nonwestern, gay or straight) is quite common... Not smart, not good, but not rare. I know of quite a number of people who admit to it.
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in any case i am highly skeptical of the HIV message.
Interesting.

So, a man or woman who knowingly sleeps with another when they have an STD is reprehensible (agreed). But the potential receiver of the STD is what? Naive? Gullible? An innocent? A victim? They know the facts & the risks. They ignore them. What does that make them?
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Old 12-08-2008, 11:12 PM   #26 (permalink)
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Playing Russian Roulette, the risks are there, alcohol is the usual trigger for one night stands as in the OP. Interestingly the article doesn't state how she found out he was HIV positive.
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Old 12-08-2008, 11:20 PM   #27 (permalink)
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But the potential receiver of the STD is what? Naive? Gullible? An innocent? A victim? They know the facts & the risks. They ignore them. What does that make them?
i don't know.

no idea what goes through these people's heads. i'm monogomous.
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Old 12-08-2008, 11:21 PM   #28 (permalink)
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OK. And the point you're both making is? Can't imagine. 'It's OK for women to be stupid about this, despite the benefit of education & media because they're only women?' Neither of you would be that crass. So, what is your point?
I meant that having unprotected sex (male or female, western or nonwestern, gay or straight) is quite common...

Not smart, not good, but not rare.

I know of quite a number of people who admit to it.
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Old 12-08-2008, 11:22 PM   #29 (permalink)
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^^ celibacy is the new monogamy.

Many people also think monogamy is just a piece of wood.
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Old 12-08-2008, 11:23 PM   #30 (permalink)
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Anyone who is knowlingly HIV positive and has unprotected sex with another human being is IMO holding a loaded gun against that person's head and has pullled the trigger.

Sure the gun might missfire and the other person survives the threat but the intention is there and they are a real danger to society.

Jail time and intense counselling should be their only reward.
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Old 13-08-2008, 03:55 AM   #32 (permalink)
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depends which figures you want to believe.
those that have a cite as opposed to those pulled outa thin air .
One problem with the statistic is the methodology of data collection. Try and think about it. I would assume that 90%+ of people that are HIV+ having unproteced sex with an HIV- partner don't know they are HIV+, so these results are missed from the equation in any case. Of those that can be analysed, someone that is found to be HIV+ and infects his partner, the newly infected parter has no idea whether the infection occurred 1 bonk ago or 1000 bonks ago. The original infectee may not know the source of his infection, therefore skewing the timescale of his period of infection.

All in all, an impossible statistic to calculate, hence the ambiguitity and misinformation out there.
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I remember meeting a British tourist out here a few months ago. He was planning to live in Thailand because it is apparently the sex capital of the world, brimming with beautiful women all dying to have sex with him.

Apparently he has never used a condom and even pays extra so the bar-girls won't insist on him doing so.

In answer to November Rain's question. If the person being infected is actually paying an infected prostitute extra for unprotected sex then it makes them incredibly dumb. A Thai female presented with this dilemma won't know how to tell the guy he has had a bad idea as it may offend him.

I am all for unprotected sex in a stable relationship, but casual relationships demand condoms in this day and age.
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I am all for unprotected sex in a stable relationship, but casual relationships demand condoms in this day and age.
Exactly.
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I am all for unprotected sex in a stable relationship
How do you know what is stable ? You may think you do but can you guarentee it. The husband/wife is always the last to know. So they say.
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^ I guess you have to trust your partner. Sometimes that trust is misplaced. Sometimes it goes very, very wrong. However, the case in the OP was most definitely a 'casual sex' situation, not 'stable relationship'
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