predicament... female stalkers

[kingwilly]

Not me, a mate! but too damn funny!

Predicament.

My first night in Jakarta in 2000 involved being taken to BATS. Couldn't believe how handsome Indonesian chicks thought I was and managed to take home a gorgeous young lady. I "inherited" a nice townhouse from the previous expat. In the morning I was asked for taxi money which I thought was fair enough and being the gentleman that I am had already pulled out RP50,000 (if the taxi fare from airport cost 100, 50 should be enough). Explained to her that I didn't know the number for the taxi so she used my home phone to call one. Then curiously she used my home phone to call herself. That's cool. Would be nice to see her again. Well, for the next 3 years there wasn't a week that she never called me at home. I really liked that townhouse but had to move out once I got engaged (solely because of the stalker).

[Bluecat]

Not me, a mate! but too damn funny!
Well, for the next 3 years there wasn't a week that she never called me at home.

And how many times did you invite her home again?
These girls stalk for a reason, they sure do not waste 3 years calling a guy every week without getting some "benefits"...

[November Rain]

^ Not necessarily true, Bluecat. No idea in this girl's case, but there are some real bunny boilers out there who get fixated over the smallest thing. Seriously. Obviously there are esteem or even psychiatric problems with women that do that, but they definitely exist.

A quick google revealed hundreds of articles. Top of the list was this:

Don't Underestimate Dangerousness Of Female Stalkers, Study Urges -- Arehart-Treichel 37 (3): 22 -- Psychiatr News


Most interesting, to me, was the part where it states that female stalkers often do it because they want to feel in a loving, committed relationship. Maybe this girl felt that she could pressure the guy into being with her...

[obsidian]

zzzzzzzz

[kingwilly]

^^ agreed, I've seen a few, and IMHO the level of phychoticness is increased among Asian women, and it aint the guy encouraging them either!

[Bluecat]

^^ agreed, I've seen a few, and IMHO the level of phychoticness is increased among Asian women, and it aint the guy encouraging them either!

and managed to take home a gorgeous young lady

That's cool. Would be nice to see her again

[sabang]

The only thing scarier than a female stalker is a male stalker.

[kingwilly]

^^ agreed, I've seen a few, and IMHO the level of phychoticness is increased among Asian women, and it aint the guy encouraging them either!

and managed to take home a gorgeous young lady

That's cool. Would be nice to see her again

huh?

some serious misquoting there!

it aint me

this time!

[machman]

I'd forgotten all about my stalker until you started this thread KW. Quite a few years ago I went to my local nightclub on a Monday night, now Monday night was called over 25s night, so all the girlies were pushing 40 but still wearing tight little dresses and bulging out in all the wrong places! Well this particular night I got absolutely shitfaced and took this delightful lady home, stellavision is an amazing thing! When I got home my 2 flat mates tried to persuade me that in truth she was no stunner, but would I listen? No way. Anyway when I woke up I quickly saw the error of my ways and kindly escorted her outside. End of story so I thought... Nope she just wouldn't take no for an answer, she appeared frequently in all my local pubs, used to hang around outside our house on a regular basis and put notes through the door saying she knew I was inside because she could see my bedroom light on, to be honest I was quite spooked. This went on for about a year until I think she found another victim at the over 25s night. I must admit though it wouldn't surprise me if I saw her in Thailand one day Very weird lady!

[mrsquirrel]

I've had two stalkers in my time.

One was mid thirties married with two kids and a Geordie, good sex but I used to go to hers. Then she started txting me saying she was hanging out around the streets looking for me near where I lived.

2nd one was a bong eyed hippy called jo. posted love letters through my door for months and wouldn't get the message that it was a one time friendly fuck.

A well.

Both were minging BTW.