I'd like to give Tsicar a green, but am out of ammo, so if somebody else could do it for me...
Yes, lots of good points.
I have seen his houses (he lives in one) and they are okay for Thais, pretty much as suggested, at length, above.
I am similar to Tsicar insomuchas I don't really respect the local population... No offense Thailand...
However, I don't overly give a fuk. I will not be spending out my final days there... Actually, it's at least partially an escape plan. The family have given me much over the years, including money when I needed it, and I've given very little back. Once the missus is happily settled in her home for the rest of her days then I, well, I can do as I please, conscience appeased.
However, however, that doesn't mean that money needs to be thrown away. So, there are two sides here:
1) the missus, who learnt from her dad, will not be wasting 1 baht. No local anybody will be overcharging. If there's something they both do well it's look after money. When the missus is at the market and finds the cheapest stall, searches under every pile to find the best bargain, she still demands a discount... The dad is similar.
2) I clearly do need to be on guard. I will keep the money in my bank account, and we'll set up a staged plan that can be managed closely with regard to costs and time; I'll make sure I'm on top of it.
3) did I say 2? Quality of workmanship. Some very good points above. How about I bring in some 'experts' such as homepro to do the wiring, and I take care to be very specific with the quality requirements (i.e. my standards)?
These are exactly the comments I need gents, thank you and keep them up.
It looks like I'm gonna have to get more involved than I thought... I don't really wanna be doing much onsite management, but careful plans and outlines of quality of goods and just who is capable of doing any particular job...
So, I'm gonna read through a fair few building threads, and get a spreadsheet and staged plan in place. I suppose step 1 is the foundations. So:
Step 1 - foundations.
Digging down half a metre. Okay or not? The land is in Nakhon Nayok. How many piles for this size, do ya reckon? Are the concrete bars/pillars that are already constructed offsite okay?