First of all find a quiet soi, for example at the back of a school , and build your house ignoring any obvious indicators of where your land ends::
Then, to make sure no one would possibly ask you to knock down your house, put a big wall around it:
Having thus successfully restricted the soi to the width of one pick-up, hope and pray that your neighbour builds HIS house past the electric poles too:
What an inconsiderate bugger!
You can be sure I'll post what happens next!!