^I'll have to remember to bring my flash drive to your place. Way OT but "Totoro" itself is rumored to be about death (i.e., Totoro is the angel of death and the two girls are actually dead at the end), although kids won't notice.
The thing I liked about "Grave of the Fireflies" is the way depiction of the cruelty and stupidity of the adult Japanese during the war as manifested in their treatment of the children in the story. Someday maybe someone will make a movie of the excellent autobiography "A Boy Called H."